Are you struggling to get your kids to listen to you the first time? Why counting to 3 isn’t working in your favor.

One of the most widely used behavior modification and management strategies I've heard is the method in which you count to 3 (hoping not to make it to 3). The idea is that your child will get the hint that the behavior needs to change and offer him/her additional time before the consequence comes when you say "3".   I heard once that delayed obedience is still disobedience and it shifted how I thought about a lot of things in life.   Today, I dive into what I believe this method is training our kids to do and some questions to think about as you move forward.   Special Time ebook & Tame Your Triggers Audio have both been upgraded to MELTDOWN MANAGEMENT Mini Training! Get it here → https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64406aa91df9ae473e5a55e3   If you are struggling to find strategies that help correct the challenging behaviors you are walking through and are ready to establish a Behavior Blueprint with a step by step plan of exactly what to do, then DM me over on IG or send me an email at [email protected] and let's connect!   Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/   XO- Kaili