Ask A Man 02 Dec '24: 'He shows very little affection and is always out partying.'

Anonymous says she’s known the guy she’s currently dating for many years starting from when they were in varsity.  Anonymous says years later after they started knowing each other they started a no strings attached relationship, however the guy disappeared on her after he got a job.  Anonymous says during their time apart the guy tried to rekindle things with her but she was in a relationship with someone else, which lasted 5 years. When that ended, anonymous reached out to the guy and they started linking up again and eventually got into a more serious relationship.  Anonymous says the guy now lives at her place, and at some point he was unemployed, so she was supporting him. Anonymous adds that she feels like he never shows that he loves her, he never posts her on social media or shows that he’s aware of her needs.  Anonymous says he’s always going out and coming back in the early hours of the morning. She’s not sure if she should remain in the relationship.