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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man.
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Ask A Man 15 Oct '26: 'He Lobola'd All Three Of Us'
Anonymous met her current partner about two years ago while they were both in relationships with other people, so they decided not to date each other at the time. Months later they were both single and decided to date. Things went well for a few months but their relationship regressed and they...
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Ask A Man 14 Oct '26: 'Why is he not prioritising our wedding celebration?'
Anonymous and her partner have been together for several years, live together and have two children. Her partner saved money over do about 10 years and used some of that money to secure a property for their family. She was a bit taken aback by this as she thought he’d use the money to complete...
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Ask A Man 13 Oct '26: 'Should get back with my cheating ex?'
Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady for about 7 years, and he was also supporting her three children during this period. The lady cheated on him a few times with her ex, who’s the father of her last born child…
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Ask A Man 12 Oct '26: 'Heartbreak has broken my life.'
Anonymous was in a four year relationship with her now ex partner. She has three children and he doesn’t have any, which is something that affected their relationship as she felt like she was constantly needing to choose between her partner and her children. As a result of this conflict in their...
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Ask A Man 09 Oct '26: 'Block her and we're back on.'
Anonymous started dating a guy in February this year and says he was amazing to her and she felt like he was a Godsend. Months into the relationship she found a text exchange on his phone with another woman and they were basically saying how much they miss each other. She confronted him about…
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Ask A Man 08 Oct '26: 'Is she remorseful about her infidelity?'
Anonymous met his wife about six years before, during Covid lockdown. Once restrictions eased they met up physically and got married a year later and soon after had their first child together. A while ago he went away to visit his family, but upon his return he found out that his wife didn’t…
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Ask A Man 06 Oct '26: 'Our financial downfall has broken our relationship.'
Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years. She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life. Their financial situation has affected their...
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Ask A Man 05 Oct '26: 'I know I'm a side but don't treat me like I'm nothing'
Anonymous is in a side relationship with a guy that’s in a relationship with a partner that he lives with. Everything has been going well between the two of them until recently when both him and his partner were on leave and spending more time together. She says during this period he was avoiding...
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Ask A Man 02 Oct '26: 'Am I asking for too much or is this just basics?'
Anonymous has been with his partner for two years now and he’s not sure if their relationship is going in the right direction. They started dating a week after meeting each other, and anonymous feels like they might’ve rushed into a relationship without really getting to know and understand each...
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Ask A Man 1 Oct '26: 'She had a baby with a side but wants to build with me.'
Anonymous was in a relationship with his ex partner for about three years. After she fell pregnant he was happy and supported her through the pregnancy but a month after the child was born she confessed to him that she thinks the baby is not his as she had a one night stand while she was away on…
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Ask A Man 30 Sep '26: 'Is my husband turned off because of my pregnancy?'
Anonymous has been with her partner for 8 years and they got married 5 years ago. She’s currently pregnant with their second child and her partner is refusing to get sexually intimate with her. She says it’s been about 5 months and despite her many advances, he’s not interested at all. She’s...
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Ask A Man 29 Sep '26: 'I don't want to be a side, but I'm falling for him.'
Anonymous met a guy who she immediately hit things off with and started having a relationship with him from the onset, and they’ve been together for about 6 months. However, a few months into the relationship she realised that he’s actually in a serious relationship with someone who he has…
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Ask A Man 28 Sep '26: 'Did my infidelity ruin us for good?'
Anonymous met his current partner about 8 years ago, when he was still in varsity, and they’ve been together ever since. He still had flings with other ladies at the beginning of their relationship but stopped that behaviour after they had their first child. He eventually went back to his old…
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Ask A Man 22 Sep '26: 'She was never into you.'
Anonymous met a lady last year and says everything was fine between them until she found a job in another province, a couple of months into their relationship. Her new job required her to have a car and he offered to finance a car on her behalf, something she refused but eventually agreed to it,...
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Ask A Man 21 Sep '26: 'Why did she move on so quickly?'
Anonymous says when he met lady no.1 she was married, they dated despite this fact and she actually fell pregnant early in their relationship and anonymous says it’s his kid. Things got sour between him and lady no.1 after she claimed to be moving to another country for work. He then met lady…
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Ask A Man: GBV Roundtable
This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual. We call on you the...
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Ask A Man 16 Sep '26: 'Am I putting too much financial pressure on him?'
Anonymous has been with her partner for over a year now. They both had jobs when they met but she got a different job in another region and had to move. He quit from his job about since months after she moved and this didn’t really affect their relationship. However, she’s now back in the same…
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Ask A Man 15 Sep '26: 'What went wrong after I moved away?'
Anonymous has been in a relationship with his partner for about two years now. They had a child a few months into their relationship, however, he lost his job at around the same time and had to move to another province for a new job. He says things soured in their relationship after he moved and...
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Ask A Man 14 Sep '26: 'Scared of revealing my romantic relationship with my pastor.'
Anonymous is 36 dating a man who’s 63. She has a ten year-old child and he has three children, the oldest daughter is the same age as anonymous. She’ll be meeting her partner’s daughter, who’s her age mate, soon and is feeling uneasy about meeting her. She adds that he’s a pastor at his church…
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Ask A Man 11 Sep '26: 'I feel lonely in my relationship.'
Anonymous has been with her partner for about 6 years now, they have two children together and they are in a long distance relationship. She feels like he’s a bad communicator, they can go days without him calling her and he seems to be ok with that. She adds that even when they do talk he never...
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Ask A Man 10 Sep '26: 'Over my toxic marriage, but struggling to leave.'
Anonymous says her marriage is toxic, she’s had enough of her husband’s antics and knows that she should end her marriage, but she’s struggling to actually leave. She says they have the public picture of the perfect marriage and that’s something that’s keeping her in the marriage. Another reason…
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Ask A Man 09 Sep '26: 'Broke up over threesomes?'
Anonymous met a guy back in 2023 and got into a relationship with him despite recognising that he’s a bit of player. At some point she found out that he was cheating on her with multiple women, but continued with the relationship believing that they are meant to be with each other. She fell...
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Ask A Man 08 Sep '26: 'We struggle to talk about money'
Anonymous has been with her now husband shortly after matriculating. They got married a couple of years after meeting and they have two children together. The problem in their relationship is finances. She says they don’t communicate properly when it comes to finances in their relationship and he...
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Ask A Man 07 Sep '26: 'I hate my ex and it's holding me back.'
Anonymous was with her ex-partner of many years and they have a child together. She ended things with him after realising that he was cheating on her with another lady who he impregnated. She’s struggling to let go of the resentment she feels for him and she feels it’s keeping her from moving...
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Ask A Man 04 Sep '26: 'Has she given up on us?'
Anonymous has been with his partner for about four years and says the first three years were easy going and the relationship was going well. However, in the last year things have gone cold in their relationship, and he says they fight a lot more and she doesn’t give him much attention or share…
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Ask A Man 03 Sep '26: 'I'm tired of sponsoring her life.'
Anonymous met a lady over a year ago, they hit off, and started dating. Months into the relationship he realised that she wasn’t really doing anything career wise, at which point he assisted her in finding a job but she said to him she wasn’t ready to work but would be good to go in 2026. Since…
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Ask A Man 02 Sep '26: 'My husband is playing happy families with his side and our children.'
Anonymous has been married to her husband for twelve years and they’ve been together for about twenty years. They have two children together and her husband secretly fathered another child about five years ago with a woman he’s been with for about 8 years on the side. She found out about the…
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Ask A Man 01 Sept '26: 'We finally made things official but it's not going well.'
Anonymous met a guy back in 2024 while she was going through a divorce and they had a casual relationship which remained non-sexual until after her divorce was finalised. They continued with their friends with benefits situation until they both realised they had caught feelings and wanted…
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Ask a Man 28 August '26: 'The father of my child says I'm too much'
Anonymous recently had a baby with her partner of four years and they’ve now broken up after she felt like he wasn’t taking care of her after giving birth to their child. He has suggested that they continue to live with each other and raise the child together but she’s confused by that offer and...
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Ask A Man 27 Aug '26: 'My partner's father is a bad influence.'
Anonymous met a guy in October 2021, they dated for 19 days before they got engaged. Just as the lobola proceedings were about to begin she fell pregnant so they put a pause on their marriage. The guy started cheating on her months into the relationship and says the behaviour also coincided with...
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Ask A Man 26 Aug '26: 'Should I accept lobola in Rands or Dollars?'
Anonymous is asking whether she should accept lobola in rands or in dollars… She started dating guy no.1 two years after the end of her 25 year marriage. Things were going well with guy no.1 and they had solid future plans until she realised that he was cheating on her and things were not going...
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Ask A Man 25 Aug '26
Anonymous is calling on behalf of her friend, who has been in a toxic relationship for many years now and has children with her partner. This has been going on for many years and as friends they’ve been trying to support her but it’s become a lot and the children are also voicing how the abuse in...
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Ask A Man 24 Aug '26: 'Has really changed from her cheating ways?'
Anonymous and his partner started dating in 2018 and broke up in 2022. They then got back together in 2023 and have been together ever since. He recently found out that she had been having an affair with another man, after the same men told him and shared explicit pictures and videos as evidence…
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Ask A Man 21 Aug '26: My current partner using my previous partner's against me'
Anonymous, who has been with her current partner for about six years, says she always knew their relationship wouldn’t end in marriage. She’s a writer and has written books about her past abusive relationships, which her partner has read. However, she says that whenever they argue, he brings up…
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Ask A Man 20 Aug '26: 'Should I just accept that she's over our relationship?'
Anonymous broke with his girlfriend about two weeks ago, after going through a tough season in their three-year relationship. He says they were experiencing a lot of stress in their relationship, she I. particular is currently studying so that was putting a lot of pressure on her. Their sex life...
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Ask A Man 19 Aug '26: 'My new partner is short tempered & moody'
Anonymous is in her early forties and has 4 children, including one who’s living with cerebral palsy. She’s divorced and tried dating but found out that the guy was cheating on her so she ended it. Fast forward to 26 May 2026, she met a guy who is almost 10 year younger than her, they hit it off...
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Ask A Man 18 Aug '26: 'My insecurities led to our relationship turning toxic'
Anonymous has been with her partner since 2022 and says things were great between them for the first two years but changed in 2024 after her partner’s father past away. She says she started feeling insecure after he cut-off his dreadlocks and that caused a lot of turmoil between them, which...
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Ask A Man 17 Aug '26: 'Does he really want to be with me?'
Anonymous met a guy a few years ago in a taxi and they would talk to each other which led to him helping her in finding a learnership. She works close his workplace and he would even drive her to work everyday, and they ended up having a sexual relationship, however, cut him off afterwards as she...
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Ask A Man 14 Aug '26: 'My partner doesn't want me in contact with the father of my child'
Anonymous and her partner have been together for about three years. They were both married to other people before they started their relationship, she has one child from her marriage and he has three. Her partner has a problem with the fact that she speaks to her ex-husband and father of her…
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Ask A Man 13 Aug '26: '8 years later and we still live with our parents'
Anonymous has been with her boyfriend for about 8 years now and they have a child together. She’s in her mid-twenties and he’s in his mid-thirties. They stay in separate houses, both at their parent’s homes. After her grandparents advised that they should be married and living together for the…
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Ask A Man 11 Aug '26: 'Why am I attached to my toxic ex?'
Anonymous is in her early thirties and she is in a relationship with a man who is twenty years older than her. She went through her partner’s phone months ago and found out that he was cheating. After confronting him about this he said she wasn’t mentally well since losing her father late last…
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Ask a Man 07 Aug '26: 'My wife is sleeping around with multiple men.'
Anonymous and his wife are married with two children, however, he recently realised that his wife has been having sex with multiple men and he even thinks some it is transactional. He discovered this on her phone and he finds himself confused by the whole situation. Anonymous says when he...
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Ask A Man 06 Aug '26: 'My partner thinks I'm sleeping with my sister.'
Anonymous’ younger half-sister recently moved to his house as she could no longer live at res. However, his girlfriend has expressed that she’s uncomfortable with him living with his sister suspecting that he might have an affair with his sister. They fought about this and are now not really on...
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Ask A Man 05 Aug '26: 'My man's wife is stalking me.'
Anonymous has been dating a married man for a while now, and his wife found out about three years ago, despite this, they continued with their relationship. Her issue now is that she feels like the man’s wife is now keeping tabs on her movements and stalking her. Anonymous initially ended things...
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Ask A Man 04 Aug '26: 'Should I keep my past in the past?'
Anonymous says she made a pact with herself that she would like to keep her past in her past but she recently ran into a guy from her past. Things didn’t end well between them, but it wasn’t too bad, as they were in a casual relationship. They spoke for a bit and she enjoyed the moment so much…
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Ask A Man 03 Aug '26: 'I'm happy to be a side, but he never has time for me.'
Anonymous met a guy a few months ago while at a funeral, they hit it off and ended up engaging in a one night stand. He revealed to her that he has a partner and they have two children, but they continued chatting anyway, although that faded because she became a little bored of him. They…
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