Ask A Man 03 April '24: 'My partner's friends ruined our lobola negotiations'

Anonymous says her and her partner had a good relationship and her partner even promised to marry her, however when it was time, anonymous’ partner sent his friends as his representatives to her family and anonymous’ family chased them away because the friends were not serious. Anonymous came into the relationship with two kids and now has 1 child with this partner. Anonymous says recently her sister had to move in with them but his partner has issues with this. Anonymous adds that her partner is also not financially supportive in the household.