Ask a Man 07 Jul '25: 'My partner feels I don't prioritise him.'

Anonymous’ problems with her partner started when things became transactional between them. He’s an e-hailing driver and she says every time he’d drive her somewhere he’d ask her to officially request a trip with him because chauffeuring is his work.  Things have also been tense between them because he feels as though she doesn’t prioritise him in their relationship. This has brought many fights in their relationship and she says he tends to be vicious with his words when they argue, but then turns around and showers her with lots of love.  She’s feeling drained by all this and doesn’t know if the relationship is worth keeping.