Ask A Man 08 Aug '25: 'My partner says I pushed him away by not financially supporting him.'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 3 years now and they moved in together about a year ago.  Her partner has been struggling financially for a while now and has accused anonymous of not supporting him financially and not spending on their household.  She has now found out that he’s been cheating on her with another lady who he says supports him financially. Anonymous wonders if his complaints about her lack of support are valid.