Ask A Man 10 July '26: 'She was a virgin when we met and she's still not into intimacy.'

Anonymous has been with his partner for about two years now, he is in his late thirties and she is in her late thirties. She was a virgin when they met and they only got intimate after nine months in the relationship.  He thinks the fact that it took so long for them to start having sexual intercourse really affected him, and it actually did cause a rift in their relationship at the time.  She fell pregnant shortly after they started having sex, and this also affected their sexual relationship as they were not getting together anymore…