Ask a Man 10 Nov '25: 'Why am I still with my toxic married boyfriend.?

Anonymous says she’s in her mid thirties and has two children. She met a man earlier this year, they have a twenty-year age gap and things were going well. She had her suspicions about the man being married so she asked him if he was and he admitted that he is married but his wife has cancer, they haven’t been intimate and he is looking for someone to be intimate with.  They continued with their relationship, at some point she fell pregnant but miscarried. She then found out that he was actually also having an affair with his neighbour, so broke things off but they got back together.  Their relationship has since been toxic and has affected her mentally and emotionally.