Ask A Man 11 May '26: 'Can we fix our mess?'

Anonymous has been with his partner and the mother of his children for about 16 years now.  Things were generally fine between them until they had their first child in 2017, and says there was a rift between them and their families. They were able to get through all of that and even had their second child in 2021.  In 2023 he caught her cheating when he saw her kissing another man. She initially denied this but they ended up breaking up.  He moved out of their home and went back to his family home. Things fell apart in both their lives and he invited her to come stay at this family home with their children.