Ask A Man 19 May '26: 'Is he a player or just playing along for the boys?'

Anonymous started dating her partner about three years ago and says her partner cheated on her, with his ex, early on in their relationship but they overcame this and moved on with their relationship.  She recently found texts on his phone to his friend where he was sharing with his friend about meeting up with another girl.  She confronted him about this and he said it’s not something that actually happened or that he went through with, he was just trying to impress his friends, who apparently thrive on that kind of behaviour.  She’s thinking of breaking up with him, but is not sure if thats the right choice.