Ask A Man 20 May '24: 'In love with my side but my main helped me through so much'

Anonymous met his partner 3 years ago and says he was still reeling from a previous relationship at the time that they met. Anonymous says this partner comforted him in his time of need, however things got bad for him when he lost his job and moved back home to the villages. Anonymous says they continued to date long distance and she continued to support him. Anonymous says he eventually moved back to the city and he found a job. He says he then met someone at work, they connected and he ended up impregnating this new lady. Anonymous says he has told her partner about the pregnancy and they are still together despite this. Anonymous says he’s thinking of breaking up with his side because she has a child, anonymous has 2 children of his own, at the same time he’s not sure if he and his partner will have a good relationship following his infidelity.