Ask A Man 20 Sep '24: 'How do I get closure from my ex who had a baby with someone else?'

Anonymous says he was dating his partner for 9 years and they have two kids. Anonymous says their relationship was toxic and they broke things off.  Anonymous says after they broke up his ex wouldn’t allow him to see his kids and he took her to court to force her to allow him and in that process he ended up requesting a paternity test and found out that the first child is not his. Anonymous says in the middle of all this she damaged his property, assaulted him and also told people that he wasn’t supporting his children. Anonymous says she’s still hostile towards him and is not remorseful.  Anonymous says he’s not sure if his ex has told the first child that he’s not his father.  Anonymous says he feels like she owes him an apology, so he can get closure and doesn’t know how to move on without one.