Ask A Man 21 June '24: 'Did I push my man away?'

Anonymous says she met the father of her child back in 2017 and she moved in with him early on and they had a child together. Anonymous says he had started the lobola process but their relationship soured and they broke up. Anonymous says she moved back home after this and their first child died while they were separated. Anonymous moved back to the same city and they started dating again. Anonymous says things tensed up in their relationship because they couldn’t agree on how they want to live and the type of home they want to live in. Anonymous says she moved to her own place and built herself a house since he was refusing to do this. Anonymous says they separated but they got back together and he moved in with her at her house as he was now broke. Anonymous says they are now separated again because she found him speaking to a strange woman on the phone. Anonymous says she doesn’t know if she should stay with him as she also feels like he’s taking advantage of her because she’s now more financially capable than he is.