Ask a Man 21 Oct '25: 'Stuck between my girlfriend and the father of my child.'

Anonymous and her partner were together from the time they were in varsity and they have a child together.  She got a job first and made more strides in her career, while he struggled and was doing well financially which affected their relationship. She ended up breaking up with him because of his financial problems. She then met a woman, who she fell in love with, things were going well in that relationship but she ended up going back to her ex because of her need to have her child living with their mother and father.  This has now become a cycle and she doesn’t know what to do.