Ask A Man 22 April '24: 'My partner no longer wants to be a polygamist'

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for 3 years and has now paid for her lobola. Anonymous already has two wives and this partner was going to be his third wife. Anonymous says after he paid lobola for her she cancelled the wedding celebration and said she didn’t want to complete the marriage process because she no longer wants to be in a polygamist marriage, something she was aware of in the 3 years that they’ve been together. Anonymous doesn’t understand why she’s behaving like this and anonymous has also heard of a few false things that this lady is sharing about him.