Ask A Man 26 Aug '26: 'Should I accept lobola in Rands or Dollars?'

Anonymous is asking whether she should accept lobola in rands or in dollars… She started dating guy no.1 two years after the end of her 25 year marriage. Things were going well with guy no.1 and they had solid future plans until she realised that he was cheating on her and things were not going well.  She recently met guy no.2 online and he lives overseas. She says things are going well in that 6 month relationship and he even wants to marry her with his Dollars.  However, guy no.1 wants to get serious with her and also wants to marry anonymous with his Rands.