Ask a Man 26 Jun '25: 'My partner still owns a house with her ex.'

Anonymous has been with his partner for almost two years now and they now live together with her two children.  His partner was in the middle of lobola proceedings when she broke up with the father of her children and they had gotten a joint-mortgage for the house they lived in. Anonymous wants to marry his partner but he’s worried that his partner is still jointly linked to a major asset with her ex.  He wants her to give up on the house so that they can move on with their relationship on a clean slate.