Ask A Man 26 Sep '24: 'My partner finds me financially unattractive.'

Anonymous says he’s been with his current partner for about a year now and says when they started he was dating someone else but that relationship was complicated.  Anonymous says a couple of months into their relationship he discovered that his partner was having suspicious conversations with other people on her phone and she would never explain who the people are.  Anonymous says his partner celebrated her birthday last week, however, anonymous told his partner that he was broke and he’ll only  be able to celebrate her at the end of the month.  Anonymous says his girlfriend later told him that she was going on a get-away with her friends and told anonymous that these are the things she enjoys and that she doesn’t respect him because he doesn’t have much money for her.  Anonymous says he loves his partner and has sacrificed for her, he’s not sure how to navigate this situation.