Ask A Man 27 Aug '26: 'My partner's father is a bad influence.'

Anonymous met a guy in October 2021, they dated for 19 days before they got engaged.  Just as the lobola proceedings were about to begin she fell pregnant so they put a pause on their marriage.  The guy started cheating on her months into the relationship and says the behaviour also coincided with him reconnecting with his long-lost father who seemed to encourage his drinking and infidelity.  They managed to work through this but he is now having an affair with another lady…