Ask a Man 27 Nov '25: 'Should I take a second wife just for the bedroom?'

Anonymous has been married to his high school sweetheart for 5 years now and they’ve known each other for 12 years.  The problem he has is the frequency of sex in their relationship. He’d like to do it more, however, she’s not keen to do it as often.  He adds that they’ve also lost two pregnancies and that’s affected his wife to the point that she’s suggested he get a second wife and that’s what he’s grappling with.