Ask a Man 31 Oct '25: 'Drained by my imprisoned fiancé'

Anonymous’ fiancé got arrested 8 years ago and has been in prison since then.  This situation put a strain on their finances and has affected their relationship. He also got into a seemingly transactional relationship with another woman that he met on social media. He said this is to help them financially but she feels like she’s not benefitting from this.  She feels drained by the situation and is not sure what to do.