Ask A Man 6 May '26: 'Shenanigans at church'

Anonymous and her partner, guy no.1, have been together for about 11 years now.  She says they met at church and when they started dating she didn’t realise that he was dating other women in their church. This complicated things between them and she ended up breaking things off with him and started dating guy no.2, who was dating her guy no.1’s side-girl.  She fell pregnant with guy no.2’s child but things didn’t workout there and guy no.1 wanted her back despite the fact that she was pregnant with another men’s child.  He took her in with her three children, including children from her previous marriage and the child she has with guy no.2.  She says their relationship is now fine but he doesn’t seem to get along with her first born daughter.