Ask God before Asking Her Out

Wait on God or Take Action? 5 Spirit-Led Steps Toward Marriage (Without Forcing It)Join me as I share how I learned to move forward in dating with peace—without striving, panic, or settling—by taking Spirit-led action. In this 4th video of my dating series, I tell the story of how God led me toward my wife, Carrie, including what I sensed the Lord speak to me in Italy, how I began thanking God in advance for “the best wife,” and what happened when I got ahead of myself before I had clarity. Then I walk you through five practical ways to take Spirit-led action: determine to be led by the Spirit, surrender your desires and get neutral, wait until you hear clearly, take obedient action, and look for confirmation. I also explain how these same principles apply inside marriage, not just dating.00:00 Wait or Take Action00:55 Series Setup and Intro02:12 Spirit Led Action03:35 Italy to Amsterdam Story06:46 Lessons and Right Order07:46 Step 1 Be Spirit Led09:41 Step 2 Get Neutral11:19 Step 3 Wait Clearly12:58 Step 4 Obey and Act13:56 Step 5 Seek Confirmation15:27 Gideon Fleece Example17:23 Apply This in Marriage18:16 Wrap Up and Next VideoHere's the link to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help. Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the link to get your free copy of my book, Turn it Up - how to have the lifelong marriage that you really want: https://turnitup.coach/75Here's the link to my videos on dating:1. Receiving God's best: https://youtu.be/t39EaJBgr8s2. Escape the Dating Minefield: https://youtu.be/QOIlpME99Nk3. Dating with Peace: https://youtu.be/lKlz0mKl7vE