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EPISODE · Dec 24, 2025 · 6 MIN

🎙️Ask Me Anything – E33: When Social Media Becomes a Measure of Self-Worth

from Untethering Shame · host Kyira Wackett

In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:“I’m always trying to do more on social media — post more, show up more, engage more — because I feel like if I don’t, I’ll lose relevance or connection. But it’s exhausting. And every time I try to take a break, I feel anxious and invisible. How can I build a healthier relationship with social media that doesn’t make my worth depend on how much I do?”We explore the intersection of shame, validation, and visibility — and how social media often mirrors our deepest insecurities about being enough. Inside this episode, we’ll talk about:Why social media can activate shame and scarcity cyclesHow visibility can become a substitute for belongingWhat it means to create and connect from authenticity rather than anxietyPractical ways to untether your self-worth from likes, followers, and feedbackIf you’ve ever felt like your peace depends on your online performance, this episode will help you find freedom from the constant pressure to prove yourself.📝 Want to submit a question for a future episode?Nothing is off-limits (well, almost nothing).⁠Submit your question⁠ anonymously or with your name — whatever feels safest for you.👉 https://forms.gle/1uYJ87Y2Vag6KYCeA💬 If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment and share your biggest takeaway or reflection — I’d love to hear what came up for you.Ready to take the next step?Download the FREE handout, “⁠5 Things Shame Resilient People Do Every Day⁠” to start building a relationship with yourself rooted in trust, not comparison.⁠Book a free 25-minute discovery call⁠ to explore coaching or program options that meet you where you are.Stay Connected:Subscribe on ⁠Spotify⁠ or ⁠Apple⁠, and leave a review to share your thoughts.⁠YouTube⁠⁠Website⁠💬 You are not your content. Your worth exists offline too.#AskMeAnything #SocialMedia #SelfWorth #ShameResilience #AdversityRising

In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:“I’m always trying to do more on social media — post more, show up more, engage more — because I feel like if I don’t, I’ll lose relevance or connection. But it’s exhausting. And every time I try to take a break, I feel anxious and invisible. How can I build a healthier relationship with social media that doesn’t make my worth depend on how much I do?”We explore the intersection of shame, validation, and visibility — and how social media often mirrors our deepest insecurities about being enough. Inside this episode, we’ll talk about:Why social media can activate shame and scarcity cyclesHow visibility can become a substitute for belongingWhat it means to create and connect from authenticity rather than anxietyPractical ways to untether your self-worth from likes, followers, and feedbackIf you’ve ever felt like your peace depends on your online performance, this episode will help you find freedom from the constant pressure to prove yourself.📝 Want to submit a question for a future episode?Nothing is off-limits (well, almost nothing).⁠Submit your question⁠ anonymously or with your name — whatever feels safest for you.👉 https://forms.gle/1uYJ87Y2Vag6KYCeA💬 If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment and share your biggest takeaway or reflection — I’d love to hear what came up for you.Ready to take the next step?Download the FREE handout, “⁠5 Things Shame Resilient People Do Every Day⁠” to start building a relationship with yourself rooted in trust, not comparison.⁠Book a free 25-minute discovery call⁠ to explore coaching or program options that meet you where you are.Stay Connected:Subscribe on ⁠Spotify⁠ or ⁠Apple⁠, and leave a review to share your thoughts.⁠YouTube⁠⁠Website⁠💬 You are not your content. Your worth exists offline too.#AskMeAnything #SocialMedia #SelfWorth #ShameResilience #AdversityRising

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