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EPISODE · Jan 28, 2026 · 6 MIN

🎙️ Ask Me Anything – E38: “When Helping Others Triggers Your Own Imposter Syndrome”

from Untethering Shame · host Kyira Wackett

In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous therapist who writes:“Sometimes it’s hard not to feel like a fraud when you’re helping clients through things you’re still struggling with yourself. How do you reconcile the shame of being seen as the expert when you’re still learning?”We explore the intersection of shame, imposter syndrome, and the myth of the “fully healed helper” — and how this expectation quietly erodes connection in the therapy room. Inside this episode, we’ll talk about:Why struggling doesn’t disqualify you from helping othersHow appropriate self-disclosure can strengthen the therapeutic allianceThe power of saying “I’m still learning” without undermining your roleReframing shame as a signal of integrity, not inadequacyIf you’ve ever felt pressure to perform competence rather than embody presence, this episode will help you reconnect with what actually makes therapy effective: honesty, reflection, and humanity.📝 Want to submit a question for a future episode?Nothing is off-limits (well, almost nothing).⁠Submit your question⁠ anonymously or with your name — whatever feels safest for you.👉 https://forms.gle/1uYJ87Y2Vag6KYCeA💬 If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment and share what it stirred up — especially if you’re a therapist navigating your own learning edges.Ready to take the next step?Download the FREE handout, “5 Things Shame Resilient People Do Every Day” to begin building trust with yourself, not just your role.Book a free 25-minute discovery call to explore coaching or program support that honors both your humanity and your profession.Stay Connected:Subscribe on Spotify or Apple PodcastsWatch on YouTubeVisit www.adversityrising.com💬 You don’t have to be finished to be trustworthy.

In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous therapist who writes:“Sometimes it’s hard not to feel like a fraud when you’re helping clients through things you’re still struggling with yourself. How do you reconcile the shame of being seen as the expert when you’re still learning?”We explore the intersection of shame, imposter syndrome, and the myth of the “fully healed helper” — and how this expectation quietly erodes connection in the therapy room. Inside this episode, we’ll talk about:Why struggling doesn’t disqualify you from helping othersHow appropriate self-disclosure can strengthen the therapeutic allianceThe power of saying “I’m still learning” without undermining your roleReframing shame as a signal of integrity, not inadequacyIf you’ve ever felt pressure to perform competence rather than embody presence, this episode will help you reconnect with what actually makes therapy effective: honesty, reflection, and humanity.📝 Want to submit a question for a future episode?Nothing is off-limits (well, almost nothing).⁠Submit your question⁠ anonymously or with your name — whatever feels safest for you.👉 https://forms.gle/1uYJ87Y2Vag6KYCeA💬 If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment and share what it stirred up — especially if you’re a therapist navigating your own learning edges.Ready to take the next step?Download the FREE handout, “5 Things Shame Resilient People Do Every Day” to begin building trust with yourself, not just your role.Book a free 25-minute discovery call to explore coaching or program support that honors both your humanity and your profession.Stay Connected:Subscribe on Spotify or Apple PodcastsWatch on YouTubeVisit www.adversityrising.com💬 You don’t have to be finished to be trustworthy.

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