Ask Me Anything – E40: You’re Not Behind — Letting Go of the Myth of Enough Time

In this episode, I am continuing our topic-driven conversations by tackling a feeling I know we all share: the tension between everything we want to do and what we actually have the capacity for. We live in a world that constantly tells us to do more, be more, and optimize more, creating a quiet, shame-filled narrative that if we can't keep up, something is wrong with us.I explore the radical acceptance that you are never going to have enough time. We discuss how "hustle culture" tricks us into treating rest and joy like rewards we have to earn, and why "later" never actually arrives. Instead of trying to optimize our nervous systems, I share the questions I use to cut through the urgency and return to intentionality.Key Topics & TakeawaysThe Myth of "Getting Ahead": I discuss why we constantly feel like we need to "get ahead" before we can rest, and why that finish line keeps moving.Infinite Inputs: How the endless stream of podcasts, courses, and "shoulds" creates a false urgency that erodes our presence.Brené Brown’s Two Questions: I share a framework I learned from Brené Brown to manage demands: 1) Who and what do I want to be held accountable to? and 2) Does that decision align with my values?.Alignment Over Hustle: Why we need to stop asking if we can do something and start asking if it aligns with the life we want to design.The 10-Minute Audit: I issue a gentle challenge to look at your to-do list and ask: "Is this something I genuinely want or need to do?" and "What am I saying no to by saying yes here?".Memorable Quotes"What if the problem isn't you? What if the problem is actually the story that we've been sold... about time, worth and productivity?""Your worth is not measured by how efficiently you use every single minute. Your life is not a productivity project.""Your nervous system does not exist to be optimized.""Choosing alignment is an act of self-love and quiet rebellion."📝 Want to submit a question for a future episode?Nothing is off-limits (well, almost nothing).⁠Submit your question⁠ anonymously or with your name — whatever feels safest for you.👉 https://forms.gle/1uYJ87Y2Vag6KYCeA💬 If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment and share what resonated or shifted for you.Ready to take the next step?Download the FREE handout, “5 Things Shame Resilient People Do Every Day” to begin building safety and trust with yourself.Book a free 25-minute discovery call to explore coaching or program options that support healing beyond survival mode.★ Subscribe to my YouTube channel★ Sign up for my email list: https://adversityrising.com/email-list★ Listen to my Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2AouludJr7EweOkMIN9s42?si=d8cdfcb925ce4c9c Take the Next Step.★ Download the FREE handout, "5 Things Shame Resilient People do Every Day" and start making those daily shifts to break that shame cycle that's keeping you stuck in that negative headspace. www.adversityrising.com/become-shame-resilient ★ Book a free 25-minute discovery call to discuss different program options and find the support best fits your needs. https://calendly.com/adversityrising/discovery-call★ Are you a people pleaser? Ruminator? Over-extender? Sign up for the next round of Liberated Living and implement the radical 3 practice — Radical Acceptance, Radical Responsibility & Radical Authorship: https://adversityrising.com/liberated-living### SHOUT-OUTS:★ All video editing done by my wonderful husband, Jordan Wackett. Check him out at @jordanwackett.