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EPISODE · May 20, 2026 · 9 MIN

Ask Me Anything – E49: I Don't Know Who I Am Anymore (How to Find Your Way Back When Burnout Took Everything)

from Untethering Shame · host Kyira Wackett

★ Join the Energy Audit: A free seven day email challenge starting May 24th to help you identify what is draining you and what is restoring you. https://adversityrising.com/the-energy-auditIn this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:"I've been running on empty for so long that I genuinely don't remember what it felt like to be okay. I don't know what I like anymore. I don't know what I want. I don't even know who I am outside of everything I do for everyone else. How do I find my way back to myself when I don't even know where to start?"We examine the reality of "Burnout Identity Erosion" and why forgetting who you are is a logical outcome of chronic survival mode. This conversation shifts the perspective from finding a lost version of yourself to actively writing your next chapter.Inside This EpisodeBurnout Identity Erosion: How your nervous system trades joy and curiosity for basic survival.The Shame of Losing Yourself: Why abandoning yourself to hold everything together is not a personal failure.Radical Authorship: Why identity is not something you find, but something you actively write.Breadcrumbs to Yourself: How noticing small moments of connection and buried values can help you rebuild your foundation.If you feel like a function rather than a human being and want to reconnect with your authentic preferences, this episode will help you pick up the pen and start writing your next iteration.📝 Want to submit a question for a future episode?Nothing is off-limits (well, almost nothing).Submit your question anonymously or with your name; whatever feels safest for you.👉 Submit Here: https://forms.gle/1uYJ87Y2Vag6KYCeA💬 If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment and share your biggest takeaway or reflection: I’d love to hear what came up for you.Take the Next Step★ Join the Energy Audit: A free seven day email challenge starting May 24th to help you identify what is draining you and what is restoring you. https://adversityrising.com/the-energy-audit★ Download the FREE Handout: "5 Things Shame Resilient People do Every Day" and start making those daily shifts to break the cycle keeping you stuck in a negative headspace. https://www.adversityrising.com/become-shame-resilient★ Book a Free 25 Minute Discovery Call: Discuss different program options and find the support that best fits your needs. https://calendly.com/adversityrising/discovery-call★ Sign up for Liberated Living: Implement the Radical 3 practice (Radical Acceptance, Radical Responsibility, and Radical Authorship) to reclaim your life. https://adversityrising.com/liberated-living

★ Join the Energy Audit: A free seven day email challenge starting May 24th to help you identify what is draining you and what is restoring you. https://adversityrising.com/the-energy-auditIn this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:"I've been running on empty for so long that I genuinely don't remember what it felt like to be okay. I don't know what I like anymore. I don't know what I want. I don't even know who I am outside of everything I do for everyone else. How do I find my way back to myself when I don't even know where to start?"We examine the reality of "Burnout Identity Erosion" and why forgetting who you are is a logical outcome of chronic survival mode. This conversation shifts the perspective from finding a lost version of yourself to actively writing your next chapter.Inside This EpisodeBurnout Identity Erosion: How your nervous system trades joy and curiosity for basic survival.The Shame of Losing Yourself: Why abandoning yourself to hold everything together is not a personal failure.Radical Authorship: Why identity is not something you find, but something you actively write.Breadcrumbs to Yourself: How noticing small moments of connection and buried values can help you rebuild your foundation.If you feel like a function rather than a human being and want to reconnect with your authentic preferences, this episode will help you pick up the pen and start writing your next iteration.📝 Want to submit a question for a future episode?Nothing is off-limits (well, almost nothing).Submit your question anonymously or with your name; whatever feels safest for you.👉 Submit Here: https://forms.gle/1uYJ87Y2Vag6KYCeA💬 If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment and share your biggest takeaway or reflection: I’d love to hear what came up for you.Take the Next Step★ Join the Energy Audit: A free seven day email challenge starting May 24th to help you identify what is draining you and what is restoring you. https://adversityrising.com/the-energy-audit★ Download the FREE Handout: "5 Things Shame Resilient People do Every Day" and start making those daily shifts to break the cycle keeping you stuck in a negative headspace. https://www.adversityrising.com/become-shame-resilient★ Book a Free 25 Minute Discovery Call: Discuss different program options and find the support that best fits your needs. https://calendly.com/adversityrising/discovery-call★ Sign up for Liberated Living: Implement the Radical 3 practice (Radical Acceptance, Radical Responsibility, and Radical Authorship) to reclaim your life. https://adversityrising.com/liberated-living

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