EPISODE · Jun 30, 2025 · 4 MIN
🎙️Ask Me Anything – E8: Making Friends When You Feel Like You Don’t Belong
from Untethering Shame · host Kyira Wackett
In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:“I recently joined a new group of friends, and while they’re kind and welcoming, I still constantly feel like I’m on the outside looking in. I second-guess what I say, overanalyze their reactions, and wonder if they really want me there. How do I stop feeling like I don’t belong?”We explore the deep-rooted shame and self-protection strategies that can keep us stuck in outsider energy — even when we’re technically “included.” Inside this episode, we’ll talk about:The difference between being welcomed and feeling like you belongHow our past experiences shape our fear of rejectionWhat self-belonging looks like and why it must come firstPractical tools for navigating new relationships with more trust and less self-doubtIf you’ve ever felt like the outsider in a group, even one that’s kind and accepting — this one is for you.📝 Want to submit a question for a future episode?Nothing is off-limits (well, almost nothing).Submit anonymously or with your name — whatever feels safest for you.👉 https://forms.gle/1uYJ87Y2Vag6KYCeA🧠 If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who might need it. Let’s break the silence — together.Ready to take the next step?Download the FREE handout, "5 Things Shame Resilient People Do Every Day" and start making those daily shifts to break that shame cycle that's keeping you stuck in that negative headspace.Book a free 25-minute discovery call to discuss different program options and find the support best fits your needs.Stay Connected:Subscribe to the podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and be sure to leave a review to let us know your thoughts on this episode.YouTubeWebsite💬 You don’t have to shrink to fit in. Belonging begins when you stop abandoning yourself.#AskMeAnything #Belonging #NewFriendships #ShameAndConnection #SelfTrust #ShameResilience #AdversityRising
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In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:“I recently joined a new group of friends, and while they’re kind and welcoming, I still constantly feel like I’m on the outside looking in. I second-guess what I say, overanalyze their reactions, and wonder if they really want me there. How do I stop feeling like I don’t belong?”We explore the deep-rooted shame and self-protection strategies that can keep us stuck in outsider energy — even when we’re technically “included.” Inside this episode, we’ll talk about:The difference between being welcomed and feeling like you belongHow our past experiences shape our fear of rejectionWhat self-belonging looks like and why it must come firstPractical tools for navigating new relationships with more trust and less self-doubtIf you’ve ever felt like the outsider in a group, even one that’s kind and accepting — this one is for you.📝 Want to submit a question for a future episode?Nothing is off-limits (well, almost nothing).Submit anonymously or with your name — whatever feels safest for you.👉 https://forms.gle/1uYJ87Y2Vag6KYCeA🧠 If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who might need it. Let’s break the silence — together.Ready to take the next step?Download the FREE handout, "5 Things Shame Resilient People Do Every Day" and start making those daily shifts to break that shame cycle that's keeping you stuck in that negative headspace.Book a free 25-minute discovery call to discuss different program options and find the support best fits your needs.Stay Connected:Subscribe to the podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and be sure to leave a review to let us know your thoughts on this episode.YouTubeWebsite💬 You don’t have to shrink to fit in. Belonging begins when you stop abandoning yourself.#AskMeAnything #Belonging #NewFriendships #ShameAndConnection #SelfTrust #ShameResilience #AdversityRising
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