Asking What You Truly Want Changes Everything

Send us Fan MailWhat if the simplest question is also the hardest: what do you want? We go straight into the heart of messy awakening to find an answer that isn’t scripted by Instagram, family expectations, or fear. Through real stories, hard-won insights, and gentle guidance, I explore how self-reflection, inner child work, and parts work (IFS) reveal the patterns behind people-pleasing, overgiving, hyper-independence, and the quiet ways we abandon ourselves.I share a pivotal moment from meditation when grief and love collided—how losing a primary mirror for my joy shaped my attachment patterns and fueled a lifetime of shining outward to be seen. That realization didn’t arrive with force; it arrived with tenderness. We talk about why tenderness heals faster than hustle, how awareness returns your life to you, and what it means to stop fixing yourself and start meeting yourself. Expect practical reflection prompts woven throughout: noticing triggers, asking why rest feels unsafe, and spotting where comparison robs the joy from the life you already built.This conversation is a permission slip to go slow, to breathe in the blessings you’ve been too busy to notice, and to redesign your life with honesty rather than crisis. If you’re in a season of shedding—old roles, friendships, or dreams—you’ll hear why that’s not failure but rebirth. By integrating exiled and protector parts, you build self-trust, clearer boundaries, and an embodied sense of home within yourself. Subscribe, share with someone who needs a soft landing, and leave a review with your answer to the only question that matters right now: what do you really want?Support the show✨ Thank you for tuning into this episode of Spiritual Shitshow! Remember, the journey to your most authentic self isn’t always neat, but it’s always worth it. 💖🎧 If today’s episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs to hear it, and don’t forget to leave a review to help more people find this space.🌟 Let’s keep the conversation going—connect with me on Instagram @julienguyen.online or drop me a message about what’s lighting you up or challenging you right now.For 1:1 sessions or support, go to www.julienguyen.online.comUntil next time, stay messy, stay magical, and keep showing up for yourself. 🌀 #SpiritualShitshow #AuthenticLiving #SoulGrowth #HealingJourney #KeepGrowing #PersonalDevelopment #SoulPodcast #RealTalkSpirituality #SpiritualCommunity #ListenNow #ConsciousLiving #SpiritualGrowth