Attracting vs. Pursuing Referrals

Today's episode stems from a discussion in the Ninja Selling Facebook group about realtors asking for referrals. Many in the group were commenting on some of Matt and Garrett's ideas which they shared during a recent episode of the podcast about referrals. This is a topic that can be a sensitive one, and, since they clearly touched a nerve for some folks on that podcast, they have decided to review and clarify their experience and thoughts on referrals, and the Ninja philosophy of attracting rather than pursuing them, with listeners here today. Our hosts begin with the different ways of building relationships and attracting business without asking for referrals. Acknowledging the fact that there are realtors who have built their businesses through asking for referrals, the hosts clarify today that Ninja will help you run your business without asking for them. They emphasize the importance of value exchange and the fact that you absolutely can successfully run your business without asking for referrals, and go on to review different ways of marketing your business, ways of bringing value as realtors, and how to create an energy of connection with your clients. Matt and Garrett draw this episode to a close by demonstrating how to unlock the attractive side of your business as well as the best way to build a sustainable, long-term business, and highlighting the fact that you get to choose how you run your business.  Today's episode is testament to the value of joining the Ninja Selling Podcast group on Facebook at Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook where you share ideas, ask questions, and connect with other Ninjas. You can also leave a voicemail with your direct feedback at 208 MY-NINJA. And visit Ninja Selling Events for more information about upcoming open installations. Or if you're interested in taking your goals a step further, visit Ninja Coaching to check out all of our amazing coaches.  Episode Highlights:       How to build and attract business       Being successful without relying on referral systems        How to get testimonials and not ask for referrals       The importance of value exchange       Dispelling the belief of needing to ask for referrals       Ways of marketing your business       Different ways of bringing value as realtors       How to create the energy of connection with your clients       The other industries that ask for referrals       How to unlock the attractive side of your business       The best way to build a sustainable and long-term business       Stacey Brown Randall's business strategy Quotes: "When the referral dialogues get brought up, and they want to be used, it's being brought up by the wrong person, which means the intention behind it is wrong. And when the intention is wrong behind it, you're now in pursuit mode, you're not in attracting mode, and that is the difference." "Not only does it matter who says it, but it also matters the direction of value exchange, because if someone is talking about how much they love working with you, there is an opportunity for them to share some value, and there's an opportunity for you to give some value back to them in terms of appreciation by allowing them to share their message." "Our opportunity as realtors, and this may sound altruistic, but is to really share a whole different level of value. And that is what's really going to, I think, help secure your thought in people's minds "There is a difference of attracting versus pursuing. You need to look at your business and make a decision. Do I want to have a business based off of pursuing?" "The difference in the thought process behind this is how I must run my business. If it's coming down to a limiting belief, then you're likely limiting your business. So whether or not you want to continue doing that practice or not, doesn't have to lie with that limiting belief." "I don't think there's a right or wrong answer here."  "The biggest thing that we've said numerous times here is, you get to choose how you want to run your business, you get to choose what feels right for you, you get to choose what, you know, what's the overall look and feel of what you're building. And whatever feels right for you is the right path." Links www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email us at   [email protected] Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events Garrett [email protected] @ninjaredding Matt [email protected] @matthewjbonelli The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group