Avoiding Conflict with your Spouse?

Conflict avoidance in marriage quietly does more damage than an honest argument ever would. I'm Kelly DuPee, a Christian marriage coach and police chaplain, and in this video I'll show you why you avoid hard conversations (and sometimes even avoid your spouse), where that habit came from, and five Biblical steps to finally break it.------------------------------------------------In this recording you will learn:- What conflict avoidance looks like in a marriage, and why it feels like peace when it's really building distance- Why your spouse hears "you're not worth it" when you go silent, even when what you feel is fear- Why avoidance is often a survival skill you learned as a child, and how to stop letting it run your marriage today- Five steps to better communication in marriage: face your fear with faith, ask God for courage, script what you want to say, get support from a friend, and know when to get professional help- The difference between a healthy time-out and avoidance, and how to help a spouse who keeps slipping awayIf you've ever felt your stomach tighten at the thought of a hard conversation and put it off one more day, this video is for you.------------------------------------------------Scriptures referenced: Genesis 3:9, 2 Timothy 1:7, 1 John 4:18, Joshua 1:9, James 1:5, Ephesians 4:15, Proverbs 15:22, Galatians 6:2, Proverbs 11:14, Proverbs 15:1------------------------------------------------For personalized help, book your free 30-minute strategy call, visit turnitup.coach or call or text 626-804-1731 or schedule online at https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callGet your free digital copy of my book, Turn It Up, How to Have the Lifelong Marriage That You Really Want: https://turnitup.coach/75Download my free Couples Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideWatch my video on why you get defensive when your wife points something out: https://youtu.be/c0-iWIG9-IQ------------------------------------------------ABOUT KELLYKelly DuPee is a Christian marriage coach, ordained pastor, and author who helps couples avoid the pain of divorce so that they can have the marriage God wants them to have. He holds a Master's degree in theology and a Bachelor's degree in psychology, a combination that allows him to offer both biblically grounded and research-based solutions to marriage challenges. After 35 years serving as an associate pastor at a megachurch, Kelly stepped into full-time Christian marriage coaching while continuing his ministry as an ordained pastor and active police chaplain serving his local department and community. His chaplaincy work has equipped him to help couples and individuals process traumatic experiences, de-escalate conflict, communicate more effectively, and grieve loss. Married to his wife Carrie for almost 39 years, Kelly has coached hundreds of couples from across the United States and internationally. His approach is practical, faith-based, and built on nearly four decades of walking with real people through real marriage struggles.------------------------------------------------#christianmarriage #christianmarriagecoach #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #marriagecommunication #biblicalmarriage #christiancouple #relationshipadvice #marriagetips #christianliving#conflictavoidance #conflictresolutioninmarriage #communicationinmarriage #christianmarriageadvice