Because: The Power of Storytelling in Overcoming Division and Creating Belonging

In this "Because" episode of “To Be and Do,” the focus turns to a reflection on the difference between “shibboleth” and story—a conversation rooted in language, belonging, and the deeper meaning behind words. The episode opens with a reflection on the biblical term “shibboleth,” highlighting how, in the Book of Judges, it was used as a password to distinguish insiders from outsiders by the mere sound of a word. This serves as a springboard for considering how language can be used to divide or unite, particularly within the church and the broader society 00:02.The conversation focused on the way repeated catchphrases, or “shibboleths,” can become empty platitudes, especially when used without genuine understanding or connection. The discussion explored the sadness in hearing jargon and code words dominate dialogue within the nation and church settings, prompting the question: Do these words make any real difference 01:13?One concept discussed was the contrasting power of “story.” Through personal anecdote, the episode shares admiration for great storytellers who weave together the narrative of scripture and everyday life. The example of a friend, a Lutheran pastor known for his storytelling, illustrates how stories make teachings come alive and resonate on a deeper, more personal level 02:05. Story, as described, asks listeners to inhabit another narrative, to see life from a different angle—mirroring how Jesus himself taught in parables, offering lessons that sit alongside real life and prompt reflection 02:42.A key theme that emerged was the longing for meaningful narrative in places of worship, rather than repetitive code words. The episode invites listeners to seek the “deeper, more profound” encouragement that comes from narrative rather than from knowing and repeating the right insider language 03:15.Several points were raised, including the suggestion to read scripture for its stories and align those narratives with personal experience. The conversation closed with a prayerful hope that listeners not settle for surface-level code words but instead know and share the deeper stories about inclusive love, care, and hope for the world 03:53.Takeaway Points“Shibboleth” illustrates how language can serve as a barrier or a gateway to belonging.Empty repetition of code words and platitudes can diminish meaningful connection in communities.Storytelling holds transformative power, inviting empathy and deeper understanding.Scripture and daily life gain depth when explored through narrative rather than rote phrases.True spiritual community begins with engaging the deeper stories of love and care, not just reciting accepted language.