EPISODE · Sep 4, 2025 · 13 MIN
Becoming the One Audiobook: Chapter 4 - Fear of What Others Think
from The Confidence Chronicles
I’ve met and worked with so many women over the years who have spent their entire lives being worried about what other people think of them. And for a very long time, I was one of them. There’s nothing wrong when you care what other people think of you because it’s what most human beings do and it's perfectly normal. But the big problem is when you allow their opinions to penetrate your mind and heart and eventually stop you from getting the life you truly deserve. I’ve been there and I know how it feels. It’s like no matter what I did, it wasn't good enough for them, resulting in me feeling like I’m not a good enough person. Until one day, I had no more energy left to pretend and I finally realized I wasn't being true to myself. I then decided not to chase my tail anymore trying to impress other people. And one of the most important lessons I’ve learned is that saying YES to please others was a big NO to myself. So if I was able to rebuild the confidence in me, you can do it too sis. Allow me and this audiobook to be the instruments of that big change that you’ve been looking for your entire life. Give the gift of Confidence! The perfect gift for a woman who’s ready to reclaim her confidence and stand in her power. Get yours here (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/confidence-like-sht-book/) LINKS: Where To Find Erika: Watch my FREE webinar: What it takes to change your life (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/changeyourlife) Ready to work with me? Check out The Sistahood Program: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/ • MyAudiobook has launched! Grab MY BOOK (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/confidencebook/) in audio form here!!! • Instagram: @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Theconfidencequeen • Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzgN7oWfbMJVj41xfJLA5Yg 👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast! (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcasts/) 👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show (https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022) 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. 👑 *READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND?* ♟️ *The Queen's Table* My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ 👑 *MORE WAYS TO WORK WITH ME* ✨ *The Next Level* Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 📖 *My Book – Becoming The One* → https://www.amazon.com/ 🎙 *Listen to the Podcast* → https://podcasts.apple.com/ 📱 *Come Say Hi on Instagram* → https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/ ⭐ *If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear it.*
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I’ve met and worked with so many women over the years who have spent their entire lives being worried about what other people think of them. And for a very long time, I was one of them. There’s nothing wrong when you care what other people think of you because it’s what most human beings do and it's perfectly normal. But the big problem is when you allow their opinions to penetrate your mind and heart and eventually stop you from getting the life you truly deserve. I’ve been there and I know how it feels. It’s like no matter what I did, it wasn't good enough for them, resulting in me feeling like I’m not a good enough person. Until one day, I had no more energy left to pretend and I finally realized I wasn't being true to myself. I then decided not to chase my tail anymore trying to impress other people. And one of the most important lessons I’ve learned is that saying YES to please others was a big NO to myself. So if I was able to rebuild the confidence in me, you can do it too sis. Allow me and this audiobook to be the instruments of that big change that you’ve been looking for your entire life. Give the gift of Confidence! The perfect gift for a woman who’s ready to reclaim her confidence and stand in her power. Get yours here (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/confidence-like-sht-book/) LINKS: Where To Find Erika: Watch my FREE webinar: What it takes to change your life (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/changeyourlife) Ready to work with me? Check out The Sistahood Program: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/ • MyAudiobook has launched! Grab MY BOOK (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/confidencebook/) in audio form here!!! • Instagram: @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Theconfidencequeen • Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzgN7oWfbMJVj41xfJLA5Yg 👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast! (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcasts/) 👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show (https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022) 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. 👑 *READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND?* ♟️ *The Queen's Table* My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ 👑 *MORE WAYS TO WORK WITH ME* ✨ *The Next Level* Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 📖 *My Book – Becoming The One* → https://www.amazon.com/ 🎙 *Listen to the Podcast* → https://podcasts.apple.com/ 📱 *Come Say Hi on Instagram* → https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/ ⭐ *If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear it.*
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