Bend Not Break

March: On DeathMarch 27Today's reflection was inspired by a haiku by Matsuo Bashō.This reflection deals primarily with the subject of child death. If you are sensitive to this subject, I'll be back tomorrow with another reflection should you decide to skip this one.The parent whose child has died will forever bend with the weight, but they also have a choice: They can let the weight bend them to breaking, or they can wait for time to begin to melt the snow that weighs them down, remaining strong while keeping their new shape, for it will never be forgotten. It is their new way of life and their new reality. It is the way they will always remember that which they have lost, and be grateful for the time, however short it was, they had. Reflection title: Bend Not BreakCreative inspiration: Matsuo Bashō, Haiku 22Reflection Question: How can I be more aware of the limited time I have with those I love? In what ways will I resolve to become more patient and present with my children, family, or friends?