Beyond Pleasure: Reclaiming Your Body & Your Boundaries with Jasmine C. Perry

You're having sex to keep him. You're having sex because you feel obligated. You're having sex because your body said yes even though your nervous system screamed no.And you still don't know what you actually want.In this episode, I'm talking with Jasmine C. Perry, author of "40 Sex Lessons from Me to You" and the woman who spent two years in tantra training after her 12-year relationship ended because neither of them could talk about desire. Jasmine isn't here to teach you techniques or performance. She's here to teach you discernment. About your body. About who deserves access to you. And about the difference between sex that uses you and sex that heals you.We dive into surrender, oxytocin attachment patterns, and why your nervous system is a better guide than your longing. If you've ever wondered why you keep choosing the same pattern, felt guilty for wanting pleasure, or realized you don't actually know what your body needs—this one's for you.Resources Mentioned:40 Sex Lessons From Me To You by Jasmine C PerryWhere to BuyAmazonTOPICS DISCUSSED:Why we use sex as a tool for love instead of a tool for pleasureHow tantra taught her what real surrender actually meansThe oxytocin effect: what happens to your brain after sex with someone you don't fully trustSexual desire as a map to your boundaries and your worthMoving through the sexual landscape as a healer instead of just a participantKnowing your "why" before you moveHow your nervous system already knows when you're doing it for the wrong reasonsBuilding transcendent sex through trust, not performanceThe difference between transactional sex that works and transactional sex that ruins youWhat she learned reaching out to former partners about her own sexualityConnect with Jasmine on:Dreams Only: Wine & Vibes LinkedIn | www.linkedin.com/in/jasminecperryInstagram | www.instagram.com/jasminethalegendBEST MOMENTS:"The best sex of your life doesn't always come from techniques, stamina, or the Kamasutra. It comes from the beautiful state of surrender. The kind where your mind goes quiet and your body finally says, yes, I can trust this.""When you're having sex from that place, you almost don't feel comfortable completely letting go because you didn't know if I showed this person my full self, are they just gonna leave me?""Is this person worth it? Do I want to be under this man's spell?""There's a way where you move through the sexual landscape as a healer. Like if you're going to have a sexual experience with me, I want this to be a positive experience and I want this to heal you in some way."Connect with SophiaWebsite |  www.thereikihealingcoach.com Instagram | @sophia_i_got_igInstagram | @createlifeyourwayFacebook | www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754LinkedIn | Sophia Elcock Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.