Beyond the Honeymoon: Staying Curious in Every Season of Partnership with Noelani Sagapolutele

Welcome to another episode of Health Raisers, Wise Women! Today, my guest is Noelani Sagapolutele, a licensed clinical social worker, native Hawaiian therapist, and founder of The Waʻa Collective. Noelani brings a unique perspective on blending indigenous wisdom with modern mental health practices. In this episode, we dive deep into the power of curiosity in relationships as we navigate the many transitions of long-term partnerships.What We Learn✨ The importance of curiosity and self-discovery in sustaining healthy relationships🧠 How intellectual health is nurtured by asking questions and keeping an open mind💬 Why assertive communication and understanding your own needs are foundational🌱 The value of individual therapy as a tool for better partnership🤝 Creative solutions for work-life balance and evolving boundaries as couples grow💡 Navigating major life transitions—parenthood, empty nest, and retirement—with curiosity and compassion❤️ The role of mutual respect, compromise, and reconnecting through life’s changesAnd much more!More about NoelaniNoelani Sagapolutele, LCSW, is a Native Hawaiian therapist and founder of Waʻa Collective—a directory and growing community of independent, culturally grounded mental health professionals serving Hawaiʻi and Pacific Islander communities across Hawai’i pae ʻāina and the continental U.S.. Raised in North Kohala and deeply rooted in Waiʻanae, Noelani has spent over 20-years supporting ʻohana on Oʻahu’s Leeward Coast. Through Waʻa Collective, she is reimagining what mental health care can look like when led by and for our communities. By creating intentional pathways for local and Pacific Islander voices in therapy, Noelani works to shift the perception of Western mental health models—offering a lens that centers Pacific Islander identity, values, and lived experience. Her vision is one where individuals and families who have historically felt unseen by the system can now access care that reflects who they are and where they come from.🎙️ Original Podcast Music by Nadine Kelly (drums and vocals) and Tim Buell; Produced by Tim Buell ❤️ Sponsored by Infusco Coffee Roasters, Mak Salon and Spa, and Fernwood Botanical Garden.