Bonus Post: Good Will in Practice

On this bonus episode of Doing Marriage Well (January 24, 2026), Paul explores how assuming your spouse’s good intentions can transform your relationship. He shares practical steps: begin with prayer, reframe annoying behaviours, notice and record moments of goodwill, and have compassionate conversations when patterns persist. Paul advises checking your own heart first, considering whether changes are temporary, and seeking God’s wisdom about when to hold on or speak up. He emphasises offering grace while setting healthy boundaries and refusing to tolerate abuse. Listeners are encouraged to practise seeing the good in their spouse for a few weeks and to start honest, loving conversations if problems remain. The goal is to improve marital closeness by choosing charitable interpretations and practical support. Short, actionable guidance and spiritual insight make this episode a helpful bonus for couples wanting to strengthen their marriage through intentional goodwill. Paul closes by reminding couples: seeing the good is part of doing marriage well.