Borderlines Use You - They Do Not Love or Attach to You

People untreated with Borderline Personality Disorderuse people. Many may be aware of this and many moreare likely not aware consciously. They are not emotionally capable of loving you, feceiving you loveor attaching to you. Borderlines are often usingyou to help emotionally regulate them, meet manyof their needs and also seeking identity from youdue to lack of a known self or "identity".