BPD Hoovers Are About The Borderline Not You

BPD hoovers are about the borderline - not you. People with Borderline Personalitydo not consider your needs or feelings when they hoover. They are as usual onlythinking about themselves and their wants and needs. In BPD Hoovers Borderlineslie, make false promises, and effectively gaslight you. BPD Hoovers triggerthe codependent's sense of I can fix what I did wrong and get a do-over. Peoplewith Codependency self-abandon themselves and minimize their own pain so quicklywhen a borderline hoovers. Hoovers are not only for the borderline but they arealso extremely manipulative. Engaging a Borderline hoover promises you only arecycled repeat of getting wounded more and all over again.