BPD Triggers Not Your Responsibility Do Borderlines Make You Feel How You Feel?

BPD triggers are real but others closest to a person with BPD do not cause their triggers. You are not responsible for how they feel. And, Borderlines, while responsible for often hurting others, and lacking any personal responsibility or accountability - they don't make people with Codependency or who are close to them feel how you feel either. It is how you think that creates how you feel.