EPISODE · Dec 9, 2025 · 47 MIN
Breaking Barriers: A Latina Colonel’s Fight Through Sexism, War, and the U.S. Military System | Lisa Carrington
from Bulletproof True Crime: The Operator Files · host Steve Stanulis + Bleav
00:00 – Introduction to Col. Lisa CarringtonSetting the stage: Latina trailblazer, combat veteran, and retired Air Force Colonel. 02:10 – Joining the military in 1980What it meant to enter a male-dominated system with almost no women in leadership. 04:05 – First assignment: an all-male fighter squadronWalking into a culture filled with harassment, discrimination, and zero support systems. 07:15 – The sexual assault she buried for decadesHow it happened, why she stayed silent, and the emotional cost of pretending it didn’t exist. 12:40 – Military culture in the 80s: sexism normalizedCenterfolds on the walls, “good old boys” culture, and no channels for reporting abuse. 16:20 – Moving every 1–2 years as a commanderHow command-track officers are uprooted constantly and how it affected her son. 20:00 – Her son’s struggle with friendshipsThe emotional damage of always leaving just as he formed connections. 23:10 – Pressure as a Latina womanWhy she felt she had to prove herself twice as hard — and why “coasting” wasn’t an option. 27:30 – Combat deployment: the psychological costSeeing death, facing threats daily, and the transition from warzone to everyday life. 31:40 – Coming home angry at the American publicThe disconnect between people in combat and civilians living normal, unaware lives. 35:55 – Coping the wrong wayHer honest admission of turning to unhealthy coping mechanisms after deployment. 40:10 – Leadership lessons learned the hard wayWhat true leadership means in a broken system — and what she would tell young officers today. 46:00 – Why she started speaking publicly in 2020The moment she decided to tell the truth and help others find their voice. 50:20 – Closing reflectionsResilience, identity, motherhood, and the cost of being a barrier-breaker. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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In this powerful full-length conversation, Retired USAF Colonel Lisa Carrington pulls back the curtain on the realities of military culture, leadership, sexism, constant relocation, and the emotional aftermath of war. From being the first female officer assigned to an all-male fighter squadron in the 1980s, to confronting harassment, discrimination, and a toxic culture where women had no reporting channels, Lisa shares the raw truth of what it took to rise through the ranks as a Latina woman in an institution dominated by men. She also opens up about the trauma she carried for decades — including sexual assault during initial training — and why she finally decided to break her silence in 2020. Lisa talks about the psychological shock of returning home after combat, how it affected her family (especially her young son), and why military families face a hidden emotional battle most civilians never see. This is an unfiltered, honest, and deeply impactful episode about resilience, leadership, and the price of serving your country from the inside out.
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