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EPISODE · Sep 8, 2025 · 17 MIN

Breaking Free from “Pick Me” Energy in Business

from Beyond the CEO Norm · host Nadine Selina

Are you secretly giving off 'pick me' energy in your business? This could be costing you clients, confidence and control of your own business.Nadine is discussing something that everyone has felt (or maybe even still feels) in their business and it’s the mindset that leaves business owners constantly seeking validation from clients instead of standing in their own authority.This energy can show up in subtle ways and Nadine goes through some of them in today’s episode like from over-delivering out of fear, not charging enough or taking on clients you know are going to be a nightmare to work with.It’s time to flip the dynamic and start choosing your clients instead of waiting to be chosen.Nadine will give you practical steps as always to start doing this so make sure to listen until the end so you can start to implement her advice today.Timestamps:00:00 What 'pick me' energy looks like in business01:51 Why seeking client validation keeps you stuck03:11 Choosing clients who align with you04:58 The importance of validating yourself first09:07 Practical ways to start validating yourself daily15:58 Reflecting honestly on how you run your businessIf this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to the podcast, share it with a friend, and leave a rating or review! Nadine would also love to hear your feedback, so message her and let her know what part of this episode spoke to you most.Connect with Nadine:Instagram: @nadineselinacoachingApply to work with Nadine

Are you secretly giving off 'pick me' energy in your business? This could be costing you clients, confidence and control of your own business.Nadine is discussing something that everyone has felt (or maybe even still feels) in their business and it’s the mindset that leaves business owners constantly seeking validation from clients instead of standing in their own authority.This energy can show up in subtle ways and Nadine goes through some of them in today’s episode like from over-delivering out of fear, not charging enough or taking on clients you know are going to be a nightmare to work with.It’s time to flip the dynamic and start choosing your clients instead of waiting to be chosen.Nadine will give you practical steps as always to start doing this so make sure to listen until the end so you can start to implement her advice today.Timestamps:00:00 What 'pick me' energy looks like in business01:51 Why seeking client validation keeps you stuck03:11 Choosing clients who align with you04:58 The importance of validating yourself first09:07 Practical ways to start validating yourself daily15:58 Reflecting honestly on how you run your businessIf this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to the podcast, share it with a friend, and leave a rating or review! Nadine would also love to hear your feedback, so message her and let her know what part of this episode spoke to you most.Connect with Nadine:Instagram: @nadineselinacoachingApply to work with Nadine

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