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EPISODE · Nov 30, 2025 · 1H 21M

Breakup Survival Guide - From Grief to Growth with Cole Zesiger

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This week in The Labia Lounge I welcome breakup and relationship coach Cole Zesiger for an honest, compassionate, and deeply practical chat about breakups: the grief and loss, the existential crisis, and—the way back to yourself. If you’re in the trenches, freshly broken up, or struggling years later, this episode will remind you: you’re not alone, it’s normal to be floored by heartbreak, and there are ways to navigate, heal, and even grow from your experience.We unpack the vital importance of no contact (even when it feels sooo lonely and unnatural), common mistakes that keep us stuck (hello, social media stalking, breakup segz, and the closure myth!), and how hope and action can be harnessed to build an amazing new life. There’s advice on handling big emotions, learning from your breakup, how to move on, and forgiving—if only for your own peace. This episode is as relatable as it is educational!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!JOIN BREAKUP CLUB by heading over to my IG or the Facebook group ( https://www.facebook.com/groups/1300495301633761 ) to enquire and jump on board!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Pre-order Cole's book and receive the first chapter immediately as well as a bonus chapter that's not even in the book: https://coachcolezesiger.com/exsandnosCheck out Cole's work here:https://coachcolezesiger.com/booking*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I welcome breakup and relationship coach Cole Zesiger for an honest, compassionate, and deeply practical chat about breakups: the grief and loss, the existential crisis, and—the way back to yourself. If you’re in the trenches, freshly broken up, or struggling years later, this episode will remind you: you’re not alone, it’s normal to be floored by heartbreak, and there are ways to navigate, heal, and even grow from your experience.We unpack the vital importance of no contact (even when it feels sooo lonely and unnatural), common mistakes that keep us stuck (hello, social media stalking, breakup segz, and the closure myth!), and how hope and action can be harnessed to build an amazing new life. There’s advice on handling big emotions, learning from your breakup, how to move on, and forgiving—if only for your own peace. This episode is as relatable as it is educational!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!JOIN BREAKUP CLUB by heading over to my IG or the Facebook group ( https://www.facebook.com/groups/1300495301633761 ) to enquire and jump on board!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Pre-order Cole's book and receive the first chapter immediately as well as a bonus chapter that's not even in the book: https://coachcolezesiger.com/exsandnosCheck out Cole's work here:https://coachcolezesiger.com/booking*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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