Brigitte Becker

Let the Wildflowers Grow – A Mother's Journey Through Adoption, Attachment, and BPD Guest: Brigitte Becker, author and advocate Summary: In this heart-wrenching yet inspiring episode, Brigitte Becker shares her journey from growing up in a loving immigrant family to becoming a mother through adoption. When her daughter began to exhibit signs of deep trauma and was eventually diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, Bridget entered a new world of advocacy, therapy, and self-discovery. Her story highlights the complexities of mental illness, the systemic shortcomings in trauma care, and the deep reservoir of love required to keep showing up. Topics Covered: Childhood and family values Infertility and adoption journey Early attachment and signs of trauma The diagnosis of BPD and navigating treatment Challenges with the healthcare system and school Parenting strategies and self-care Letting go and holding on with love Advocacy through writing and community work Resources Mentioned: Let the Wildflowers Grow by Brigitte Becker NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) McLean Hospital – Adolescent BPD and DBT programs