Bullying vs Meanness vs Carelessness vs Testing

Develop your ability to recognize the difference between bullying and other kinds of unpleasant behavior others throw your way. Kids are amateur adults, who are new to the task of more adult social interactions, so they make hurtful mistakes. It's crucial to tell the difference between mistakes and intentional harm. Nobody who makes and innocent mistake wants to be accused of bullying, and any bully would be emboldened by it. Call the bully a bully, and you might as well tell them their plan is working.In this episode we go through defining differences between bullies and those who are unkind for a different reason. Luckily what works is the same in each case, and we go though that as well.Disclaimer: Keep in mind I am a teacher, not a therapist nor healthcare provider. It's my pleasure to provide lessons here to teach young people about the pattern of bullying and successful ways to approach it. I ask all young listeners to reach out to trusted adults and parents before implementing the lessons in their personal lives. This content is not meant to replace advice from a therapist or provider. Listening and learning here is your choice, as is any decision you make to act on what you learn. I do not know all of you personally, so I cannot provide personalized instruction during the episodes. However, I'm here to help and support you, and I want the best for you.