Can a Christian ________?

When you think about being a Christian there is a lot of conflict and a lot of tension and how to be a faithful Christian who simultaneously loves their community and neighbors and loves God when your neighbor and God disagree on a lot of very important things – how can you be that mediator in some way, that person in the middle that continues to love God and their community in spite of some of the differences that exist between the community and God. And so if you are a Christian, you’re continually faced with all kinds of questions, like how do I approach alcohol? How do I approach cigarettes? Or certain kinds of music? Or certain kinds of clothes? Or sexuality? That alternative lifestyles?