Celebrations and relationships

Getting lost in the idea of unity/ekam is so ‘merged’ with the idea of annihilating the self as an identity that it is counterproductive to what evolution is about. If we were only born to be ‘one’ (as in united in the experience of being one as a whole ..without separations), then we fail to see what another brings to life, what another is, other than our projection of them being ‘what we think they are or we project them to be the certain way we think them to be’ and continue to fail to see another. It is not ‘intention’ or an overarching ‘context’ of who they are from ‘raised vibrations’ but from the ability to be in ground zero from which YouTubes/connection/relationships to other islands (ground zeros) that other people are becomes possible. The point at the center of a circle is as much a journey to the center of earth one needs to learn living life from as an n-dimensional human being at the center of the Sacred Geometrical circles arising from the first circle as much as a weave between different facets of the circle (as suggested by the idea of Apollo asteroid) as a pied piper weaving threads within stories that many live life by and yet experience layers of wellness (lightness) from facets of the weave percolating through the thick adamantine walls of resistance as only conscientious character can, as also did suggest Swami Vivekananda. Isn’t that also how we make those juicy soft just-tasty-enough confections we would rather celebrate on happy occasions with that makes life worth enlivening? Why cannot such be our everyday moment of a New Day when water nourishes our body as the elixir of life found nowhere else in the big wide universe the way it does on Earth that’s also our common ancestral home as is the big wide universe?