Choking the Chicken

I am responding to a DM from a podcast listener. ARE YOU READY TO TAKE THE COUCH? Hey Dr. Delvena I’m a habitual listener to your podcast. I’ve struggled with bringing this question to anyone outside of my doctor. Her only answer was to take Cialis or Viagra. My issue is that I struggle to get an erection during sex with a partner, but I have no problem getting erect for self pleasure. I’ve tried all kinds of natural remedies and herbs. Sometimes I’m able to perform with no issue and other times my member does not respond at all, it actually shrinks sometimes. It’s becoming an issue in my relationship. Hopefully you can shed some light on my issue?? Please and thank you for your time. Please don’t use my name if you speak to it on your podcast. I forgot to mention, I’ve been self pleasuring myself since I was age 11, and I used to watch a heavy amount of porn. Not sure if you needed to know that, but I really need some advice. LISTEN FOR MY RESPONSE...........