Coaching Styles Shouldn’t Be Cookie-Cutter [MSM5]

What this episode covers

COACHING STYLES SHOULDN’T BE COOKIE-CUTTERWE JUST HAVE TO SHOW OUR GIRLS WHO WE TRULY ARE. “They’re a yeller.” “They’re too soft.” “They act like a dictator.” There are countless criticisms about the way we coach. Usually it comes from someone outside of the team who simply doesn’t see us work with the players every day. But sometimes the comment comes from the players. And that’s when it becomes a problem. The problem isn’t with any one particular coaching style. You can see it just by watching one weekend of softball on TV. There are countless examples of coaches doing things they “shouldn’t” yet they still seem to work. What’s going on there? When you look at the coaches who have the most success, the common thread is actually their belief in their own unique coaching style. They’ve figured out who they are as a coach and build their teams using their strengths. We discuss many topics around this theme today. See if you can start to identify Wilma’s and Alicia’s coaching styles. Today we discuss… * Helping players deal with failure * Getting players to buy into mental training * When it’s ok to be a “yeller” * Understanding different coaching styles * Giving better feedback * Switching the perspective on expectations * Staying patient as the team continues to improve COACHING RESOURCE | Coaching Personality Quiz Just because you’re having a hard time getting through to your girls right now, it does not mean you have to try to be something you’re not. There is a time for encouragement and a time for discipline, but the way you go about it is all about you. There are many personality tests out there, but we suggest you start with our Coaching Personality Quiz. This quick quiz will help you discover your preferred style of thinking and communication. Are you the type of coach who sees the bigger picture, is idealistic and isn’t afraid to try new things? Do you prefer using a strategic plan to help your girls improve and reach their potential? Those are just two of the preferences! To discover the way you think and communicate best, head to mss.com/coaching-personality. When you know more about how you think, it’ll be easier to communicate what you want for your player! That’s it for today! See you back here soon for a bonus episode with a special guest! We think you’ll recognize this name and we know you’ll want to hear her perspective! Mel & Alicia RELATED MAIN PODCAST PAGE Enjoying the show? Please leave a review here or wherever you listen so we can reach the ears of more dedicated coaches like you!