Conditional vs Unconditional Love

Can I love you and not agree with the way you behave or think, especially if it is harmful to me? If I am in a state of unconditional love, is this not a kind of acceptance that allows for anything without boundary? Boundaries are what we create to define who we are, and also to protect ourselves from that which can harm us. We don't have to love someone all the time. Instead we can acknowledge what they may need for their own growth process without having to embrace it or be next to it. With wisdom and flexibility we can accept our moments of not loving if their behavior gets in the way of our own health or boundaries, but without having to cut the underlying cord of love.